How easy it is for us to jump on the bandwagon and join in when we hear people criticizing someone we don’t particularly like, or gossiping about someone’s bad behavior.

Paul writes to the Ephesians in chapter 4:29 “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” NIV

It is important not only that we don’t join in, but we should try to take the opportunity to diffuse the gossip and criticism; not only for the benefit of the person who is the subject of the gossip or criticism, but also for the benefit of those criticizing and gossiping. We may never know the positive affect our actions have on the character of those listening.

Dear Lord, help us resist the temptation to criticize and gossip, and give us the strength to build up others rather than tearing them down. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.