We all have our challenges living the Christian life we desire.

One common challenge is criticizing. Many of us see all the problems with other people. How they drive (too slow in the left lane) what they wear, how they do their work. These critical thoughts interfere with our ability to experience the peace and joy that God desires for us.

In The Living Bible translation, Jesus says in Matthew 7 using, “Do not criticize, and then you won’t be criticized. For others will treat you as you treat them. And why worry about a speck in the eye of a brother when you have a board in your own?”

The solution to this temptation and urge to judge or criticize others, is a mindset of love. When those critical thoughts arise, stop and replace them with conscious thoughts of love and caring for the one you were about to criticize. Remember everyone does not have the same upbringing, skills, training, education, sense of style, or awareness that you may have. A mindset or demeanor of love will change your critical perspective into one of tolerance and better yet helpfulness. You’ll be looking for ways to help those you may once have considered targets of criticism.

Give it a try.

Dear Lord help us remember to reflect the love You show to us to those we encounter. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.